Tips For A Good Healthy Relationship

Author : Mohosho Pofane
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9789991185903
Total Pages : 106 pages
Book Rating : 4.1/5 (859 download)

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Download or read book Getting Played written by Mohosho Pofane and published by . This book was released on 2021-01-04 with total page 106 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Bob Marley once said the biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love with no intention of marrying her. But what about a woman who awakens a man's love we with intentions of marrying him? Well, that's a topic for another book! Love is a beautiful thing. It's a risk that most of us take over and over again with the hope of finding the perfect partner whom we're willing to spend the rest of our lives with. Someone who will make the love journey worthwhile. While we're searching, we end up in toxic situations, being played or ghosted, as a result end up looking at the whole notion of love differently. Some people give in to the cruelty and play the game too, while others keep hoping for a good partner on try over and over again. It's often said that the world does not reward those who play by the rules (which is arguably true), so wouldn't it be great if we knew the difference between people who come to us to play and those who come with genuinely good intentions? We all know the feeling of being played in dating. You were misled by someone who seemed to be into you. There were no warning signs that someone was about to flip the script but just as you were letting your guard down and starting to get excited about the promise of a long term relationship, the person you were dating totally flakes. They pull away. They dump you. They ghost. At the end of the day leaving you feeling like a fool for believing in something that clearly was not real. So how can we avoid getting played or made to feel like a fool in dating? First understand what it means when someone plays you. Essentially they have tricked you into giving up something that you would normally never give up unless you were guaranteed to get something in turn. This could be sexy time, money, time, or intimacy. But a player makes you believe in the promise of a return on your investment. They make you feel like you can trust them, when in fact they are completely untrustworthy. Thing is, most girls secretly wish they had a male best friend. One who would tell them all about boys, their conversations, their daily plans about women, everything. However, those are rare to find because under normal circumstances, your male best friend is only hanging around because he's patiently hoping that one day you'll give in and he'll hit it. That's if the two of you haven't made that 'mistake' already. It's through our friends of opposite the sex that we get the kind of information contained in this book. Although most content in this book is more oriented to the females: take this book as your companion who is not patiently waiting to sleep with you. After all, it is the ultimate guide to a healthy relationship.All I'm saying is, we need to start treating others like we'd want them to treat us. We need to have compassion and respect for the feelings of others. When I wrote this book, I thought of all the people who are going to fall victims to someone who behaves the way my friends and I did long ago. I thought to myself, "what if it's my own daughter?", what if it's my nephew or someone I love?" Then I decided that since I may not be there to guide them or give them a little pep talk about men, I might as well write a book, something they can keep referring to every time things get out of control. I'm not saying the book will completely help, but it's always good to know the truth, the decision is always yours! Enjoy