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Body Neutrality

Author : Ayla Freitas Ghibaudy
Publisher :
ISBN 13 :
Total Pages : 82 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (87 download)

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Download or read book Body Neutrality written by Ayla Freitas Ghibaudy and published by . This book was released on 2020-12-30 with total page 82 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Break up with diet culture and make peace with your body. Learn simple, practical strategies to help you accept and respect your body exactly as it is right now.For too long, women have lived under the weight of a societal obsession with beauty. It's not enough that we are teachers, scientists, nurturers, visionaries, innovators, leaders, entrepreneurs, encouragers, artists, and healers. We must also be beautiful."Love your body!" they shout from little squares in our Instagram feeds. But that's easier said than done. More than half of all women struggle with negative body image. Disordered eating patterns are incredibly common. Diet culture permeates every part of life, trying to convince us that we are not good enough.But what if loving your body doesn't mean what we think it means? What if we don't have to love the way we look? There's a better way to combat negative body image and diet culture, and it doesn't come with a new standard of beauty. By practicing body neutrality, we can learn to peacefully dwell in our bodies and stop thinking so much about how we look.This book is for every woman out there who is tired of hating her body. This is for every woman who is ready to show her body radical acceptance and respect. This is for every woman who is tired of being boxed into spaces she no longer fits and is ready for liberation.

Body Neutrality

Author : Eleanor Clark
Publisher : Taylor & Francis
ISBN 13 : 1000805441
Total Pages : 152 pages
Book Rating : 4.0/5 (8 download)

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Download or read book Body Neutrality written by Eleanor Clark and published by Taylor & Francis. This book was released on 2022-12-16 with total page 152 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This practical, accessible book teaches readers how to practice healthy body image habits and let go of an emphasis on body image through research, activities, and personal stories. Body neutrality is a body image approach focused on finding acceptance and liberation from the body-focused culture in which we live. Body neutrality is a shift toward seeing our bodies as a vessel of who we are rather than as who we are. This guide is organized into thirteen chapters, each outlining a different concept of body neutrality ranging from comparison and identity to mindfulness and gratitude, inviting participation from the reader through end-of-chapter activities. For anyone aiming to release the enslaving emphasis placed on appearance in a world where body obsession has become inappropriately “normal,” this book will provide insight and practical guidance toward freedom. Body Neutrality is for anyone struggling with self-esteem and body image issues who aims for acceptance and liberation.

More Than a Body

Author : Lexie Kite
Publisher : Houghton Mifflin
ISBN 13 : 0358229243
Total Pages : 361 pages
Book Rating : 4.3/5 (582 download)

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Download or read book More Than a Body written by Lexie Kite and published by Houghton Mifflin. This book was released on 2020-12-29 with total page 361 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Drs. Lindsay and Lexie Kite know firsthand how hard filtering out media influence is when it comes to self-image. Both struggled as young women to overcome the expectations of body size and shape, but were able to learn to love, appreciate, and reclaim their own bodies, eventually earning their PhDs in body image resilience. The twin sisters founded the nonprofit Beauty Redefined and have made it their mission to help other women see themselves without societal expectations distorting their self-perception. More than a Body is a self-help book focused on going beyond body positivity, showing how a mindset focused on appearance sets women up for insecurities and self-judgement. In this book, they offer an action plan for readers to combat that mindset, and instead learn how the body can be "an instrument, not an ornament," with practical, actionable steps to take when consuming media, exercising, practicing self-reflection and self-compassion, and finding a purpose in life.

Empowering Affirmations for Body Neutrality

Author : Spiritual Primate
Publisher : Spiritual Primate
ISBN 13 :
Total Pages : 23 pages
Book Rating : 4./5 ( download)

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Download or read book Empowering Affirmations for Body Neutrality written by Spiritual Primate and published by Spiritual Primate. This book was released on with total page 23 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are negative thoughts about your body holding you back from living your best life? Do you constantly compare yourself to unrealistic standards and feel trapped in a cycle of self-doubt? It's time to break free from the chains of body dissatisfaction and embrace a more positive and empowering mindset. We live in a world that bombards us with images of "perfect" bodies, leading us to believe that our worth is tied to our appearance. This constant pressure to conform to societal ideals can have a profound impact on our self-esteem and mental well-being. The negative self-talk and internal battles we face can hinder our ability to fully enjoy life and reach our true potential. Introducing "Empowering Affirmations for Body Neutrality," a transformative book that will guide you on a journey towards self-love, acceptance, and body neutrality. This book is your roadmap to break free from the shackles of body image issues and embrace a more positive and compassionate relationship with your body. Unleashing the Power of Affirmations In this book, you will explore the science behind affirmations and how they can rewire your brain to embrace body neutrality. Discover the techniques to effectively integrate affirmations into your daily routine for maximum impact. "Empowering Affirmations for Body Neutrality" is not just a book; it's a powerful tool that will empower you to overcome your insecurities, embrace your body, and live life on your own terms. Say goodbye to self-doubt and hello to a world where body neutrality is celebrated. It's time to rewrite your narrative and embark on a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. Get ready to transform your mindset, unleash your true potential, and thrive in the beauty of body neutrality.

Beyond Beautiful

Author : Anuschka Rees
Publisher : Ten Speed Press
ISBN 13 : 0399582096
Total Pages : 210 pages
Book Rating : 4.3/5 (995 download)

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Download or read book Beyond Beautiful written by Anuschka Rees and published by Ten Speed Press. This book was released on 2019-05-14 with total page 210 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The ultimate guide to building confidence in your body, beauty, clothes and life in an era of toxic social media-driven beauty standards. “A self-confidence bible that every woman should read.”—Caroline Dooner, author of The F*ck It Diet Empowering, insightful, and psychology-driven, Beyond Beautiful is filled with proven, no-BS strategies for proactive self-care. This stylish and practical handbook takes a deep-dive into all of the factors that make it hard to feel good about yourself, and offers sage answers to tricky questions, like: • Why do I hate the way I look in pictures? • How can I stop feeling like a total slob compared to everyone on social media? • How exactly does this "self-love" thing work? • How do I find the confidence to use less make up, stop shaving, or wear what I want? • Is body positivity really the answer? Illustrated with full-color art, Beyond Beautiful is a much-needed breath of fresh air that will help you live your best life, know your worth, and stop wasting any more precious energy and mental space worrying about the way you look. Praise for Beyond Beautiful “This compact book delves into every aspect of the body-image problem and sets forth feasible ideas for accepting one’s physical appearance to enhance confidence and joy.”—Library Journal (starred review) “Rees’s emboldening message will surely help any reader struggling with self-confidence.”—Publishers Weekly

The Body Image Blueprint

Author : Jenny Eden Berk
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9780998857916
Total Pages : 214 pages
Book Rating : 4.8/5 (579 download)

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Download or read book The Body Image Blueprint written by Jenny Eden Berk and published by . This book was released on 2017-05-22 with total page 214 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Body Image Blueprint a powerful book that follows Jenny's compelling journey of indoctrination into an eventual unshackling from dieting culture.

Body Talk

Author : Katie Sturino
Publisher : Clarkson Potter
ISBN 13 : 0593232127
Total Pages : 209 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (932 download)

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Download or read book Body Talk written by Katie Sturino and published by Clarkson Potter. This book was released on 2021-05-25 with total page 209 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Learn to love yourself and your body with this interactive guide from the “shame-free, fun, cheerful, and no-nonsense” (Bustle) body acceptance advocate and influencer who founded Megababe beauty. “Brilliant, hilarious, adorably illustrated.”—Goop Can you imagine how much free time you’d have if you didn’t spend so much of it body shaming yourself? Katie Sturino knows all too well what it’s like to shit talk yourself. She spent thirty years of her life feeling ashamed of her body and its self-determined wrongness. Now she doesn’t care what anyone thinks of her; she only cares that she’s happy and comfortable with herself. Body positivity and size inclusivity is still a relatively new phenomenon, but Sturino has dedicated her life to unlearning all that beauty standard BS and uses her blog, Instagram, podcast, and non-toxic, solution-oriented beauty products to share the message that changed her life: YOUR BODY IS NOT THE PROBLEM. With Body Talk, an illustrated guide-meets-workbook, Sturino is here to help you stop obsessing about your body issues, focus on self-love, and free up space in your brain for creative and productive energy. Complete with empowering affirmations, relatable anecdotes, and actionable takeaways, as well as space to answer prompts and jot down feelings and inspirations, Body Talk encourages you to spend less time thinking about how you look and what you eat and more time discovering your inner fierceness.

The Minority Body

Author : Elizabeth Barnes
Publisher : Oxford University Press
ISBN 13 : 0191046558
Total Pages : 213 pages
Book Rating : 4.1/5 (91 download)

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Download or read book The Minority Body written by Elizabeth Barnes and published by Oxford University Press. This book was released on 2017-04-14 with total page 213 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Elizabeth Barnes argues compellingly that disability is primarily a social phenomenon—a way of being a minority, a way of facing social oppression, but not a way of being inherently or intrinsically worse off. This is how disability is understood in the Disability Rights and Disability Pride movements; but there is a massive disconnect with the way disability is typically viewed within analytic philosophy. The idea that disability is not inherently bad or sub-optimal is one that many philosophers treat with open skepticism, and sometimes even with scorn. The goal of this book is to articulate and defend a version of the view of disability that is common in the Disability Rights movement. Elizabeth Barnes argues that to be physically disabled is not to have a defective body, but simply to have a minority body.

Body Neutral

Author : Jessi Kneeland
Publisher : Penguin
ISBN 13 : 0593491769
Total Pages : 433 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (934 download)

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Download or read book Body Neutral written by Jessi Kneeland and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2023-06-06 with total page 433 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “An incredible resource for those who are looking to find greater peace with their bodies in order to live a more empowered, joyful, and meaningful life.” —Matt McGorry A life-changing guide to reclaiming your relationship with your body—and yourself Have you ever thought that if only you could change the way you looked, your life would be better? It’s so easy to imagine that by changing the outside of our bodies, we’d feel better on the inside. But we all know that even if we could magically attain a so-called “perfect” body, our problems wouldn’t actually be solved. That’s because body image issues are never just about the body: they’re always about something deeper inside. As a longtime personal trainer and coach, Jessi Kneeland has seen hundreds of clients achieve their fitness goals but still feel trapped in a web of body hatred, anxiety, obsession, and dysmorphia. Searching for a solution, Kneeland set out on a quest to discover what it truly takes to help people understand, process, and heal their body image issues for good. They share their discoveries in Body Neutral, where you’ll learn: The power of “body neutrality”—the ability to accept and respect your body, even if it isn’t the way you’d prefer it to be. Which of the four “body image avatars”—each of which represents a different root cause for body image issues—aligns with you and your relationship with your body: the self-objectifier, the high achiever, the outsider, or the runner. Actionable and unique methods to help you strip away the layers of false meaning, excess power, moral significance, and shame that have been preventing you from both connecting to and appreciating your body, and feeling truly worthy as a person. There is a reason you’re unhappy with your body, and Body Neutral will help you discover what that reason is and how to defuse its power, freeing you to enjoy a life of true confidence, security, and satisfaction.

Reclaiming Body Trust

Author : Hilary Kinavey, MS, LPC
Publisher : Penguin
ISBN 13 : 0593418662
Total Pages : 321 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (934 download)

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Download or read book Reclaiming Body Trust written by Hilary Kinavey, MS, LPC and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2022-08-30 with total page 321 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A holistic and powerful framework for accepting and liberating our bodies, and ourselves. Have you ever felt uncomfortable or not “at home” in your body? In this book, the founders of Body Trust, licensed therapist Hilary Kinavey and registered dietician Dana Sturtevant, invite readers to break free from the status quo and reject a diet culture that has taken advantage and profited from trauma, stigma, and disembodiment, and fully reclaim and embrace their bodies. Informed by the personal body stories of the hundreds of people they have worked with, Reclaiming Body Trust delineates an intersectional, social justice−orientated path to healing in three phases: The Rupture, The Reckoning, and The Reclamation. Throughout, readers will be anchored by the authors’ innovative and revolutionary Body Trust framework to discover a pathway out of a rigid, mechanistic way of thinking about the body and into a more authentic, sustainable way to occupy and nurture our bodies.

Lines of Neutrality

Author : S. B. Jung
Publisher : iUniverse
ISBN 13 : 0595515762
Total Pages : 351 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (955 download)

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Download or read book Lines of Neutrality written by S. B. Jung and published by iUniverse. This book was released on 2009-07 with total page 351 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Lines of Neutrality is a window into the lives of two modern-day assassins - Raven Yin and Christian Delacroix. Unbeknownst to either of them, they are both hired to kill the same mark and coincidentally choose the exact same night and time to strike. This begins a chain of events that brings Raven and Christian together to fight a war far larger and more complex than either of them could have imagined. It is a war being waged against secret societies whose agendas are more enigmatic than their rumored existence. Their personalities and methods are fundamentally different, yet each of them discovers more about themselves by studying the other. Despite secret societies, internal betrayal, stolen memories and personal battles, Raven and Christian defy the odds to show that the Society of Assassins is nobody's pawn.

Her Body Can

Author : Ady Meschke
Publisher : Greenleaf Book Group
ISBN 13 : 1626348928
Total Pages : 41 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (263 download)

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Download or read book Her Body Can written by Ady Meschke and published by Greenleaf Book Group. This book was released on 2022-09-06 with total page 41 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Her Body Can is a book for girls and those who love them. It celebrates the wonders and uniqueness of who we are and who we want to be. Our worth isn’t a matter of looks, we see, because we’re so much more than that. Through engaging rhymes and vibrant artwork, this picture book finds a warm, inviting way to communicate powerful truths about what we’re capable of, what we can do, and how we can live our dreams, regardless of our body’s shape or size or what others think about us. We know we’re free to think, act, and be without worry or judgment. We have opinions, voices, and the ability to choose our own way, while loving ourselves exactly as we are. Her Body Can reminds every one of us to be true to who we are as we create our paths. We can do anything, and our lives are full of possibilities when we embrace our bodies and souls and live without limits. This is a relevant and important book about body positivity, self-love, and respect for all girls. Whether we’re 1 year old or 101 years old, our bodies CAN.

The Art of Body Acceptance

Author : Ashlee Bennett
Publisher : Page Street Publishing
ISBN 13 : 1645672727
Total Pages : 224 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (456 download)

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Download or read book The Art of Body Acceptance written by Ashlee Bennett and published by Page Street Publishing. This book was released on 2021-05-25 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Make Bad Art. Make Messy Art. Make Art that Heals You, Grounds You and Inspires You to Have More Compassion for Your Body and Yourself. You are inherently creative. Yes, you. Even if you’ve never picked up a paintbrush before, registered art therapist Ashlee Bennett will teach you how to reclaim your creativity and make amends with your body using art. In our image-obsessed society, it’s easy to be bogged down by the negative messaging that you’re not enough, that your creativity and self-expression aren’t “right” and that your body isn’t worthy of love and respect. But Ashlee sees the falsehood in those messages and is here to guide you to a place of greater compassion, acceptance and connection with your body and your inner self. Therapeutic art exercises give you unconditional permission to express yourself. Creating a sensations map helps you connect your body and mind, forming sculptures allows you to represent your inner qualities using clay and making a collage gives you the opportunity to express the way you wish media reflected bodies and appearance. The goal isn’t to create art worthy of a museum or even your refrigerator door—the goal is to use art as a way to reconnect with your body, reject harmful beauty standards enforced by our society and learn that you are worthy of taking up space, just the way you are.

The Wisdom of Your Body

Author : Hillary L. PhD McBride
Publisher : Brazos Press
ISBN 13 : 149343389X
Total Pages : 288 pages
Book Rating : 4.4/5 (934 download)

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Download or read book The Wisdom of Your Body written by Hillary L. PhD McBride and published by Brazos Press. This book was released on 2021-10-12 with total page 288 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Many of us have a complicated relationship with our body. Maybe you've been made to feel ashamed of your body or like it isn't good enough. Maybe your body is riddled with stress, pain, or the effects of trauma. Maybe you think of your body as an accessory to what you believe you really are--your mind. Maybe your experiences with racism, sexism, ableism, heterosexism, ageism, or sizeism have made you believe your body isn't the right kind of body. Whatever the reason, many of us don't feel at home in our bodies. But being disconnected from ourselves as bodies means being disconnected from truly living and from the interconnection that weaves us all together. Psychologist and award-winning researcher Hillary McBride explores the broken and unhealthy ideas we have inherited about our body. Embodiment is the way we are in the world, and our embodiment is heavily influenced by who we have been allowed to be. McBride shows that many of us feel disembodied due to colonization, racism, sexism, and patriarchy--destructive systems that rank certain bodies as less valuable, beautiful, or human than others. Embracing our embodiment can liberate us from these systems. As we come to understand the world around us and the stories we've been told, we see that our perspective of reality often limits how we see and experience ourselves, each other, and what we believe is Sacred. Instead of the body being a problem to overcome, our bodies can be the very place where we feel most alive, the seat of our spirituality and our wisdom. The Wisdom of Your Body offers a compassionate, healthy, and holistic perspective on embodied living. Weaving together illuminating research, stories from her work as a therapist, and deeply personal narratives of healing from a life-threatening eating disorder, a near-fatal car accident, and chronic pain, McBride invites us to reclaim the wisdom of the body and to experience the wholeness that has been there all along. End-of-chapter questions and practices are included.

Mine Body Is Not an Apology: A Guide for Self-Love

Author : Amanpreet Kaur
Publisher : Rana Books Uk
ISBN 13 : 9391927955
Total Pages : 44 pages
Book Rating : 4.3/5 (919 download)

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Download or read book Mine Body Is Not an Apology: A Guide for Self-Love written by Amanpreet Kaur and published by Rana Books Uk . This book was released on 2023-09-01 with total page 44 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In "Mine Body Is Not an Apology: A Guide to Self-Love," readers embark on a transformative journey towards embracing self-acceptance and nurturing a positive relationship with their bodies. This empowering guide offers practical insights and tools to help individuals overcome societal pressures and harmful beauty standards. Through a blend of self-care practices, positive self-talk, and celebrating personal achievements, this book encourages readers to cultivate a deep sense of self-worth and body confidence.With an emphasis on setting healthy boundaries, building supportive relationships, and prioritizing overall well-being over appearance, this guide equips readers to navigate life with self-love at its core. It promotes the idea that bodies come in diverse and beautiful forms and encourages readers to live authentically and unapologetically."Mine Body Is Not an Apology" is a heartfelt and empowering resource that inspires individuals to advocate for body positivity, inclusivity, and self-compassion. It's a guide that fosters personal growth, encouraging readers to embrace their unique selves and create a more loving and accepting world for all.

Body Happy Kids

Author : Molly Forbes
Publisher : Random House
ISBN 13 : 1473587840
Total Pages : 212 pages
Book Rating : 4.4/5 (735 download)

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Download or read book Body Happy Kids written by Molly Forbes and published by Random House. This book was released on 2021-04-01 with total page 212 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We are not born hating our bodies. Make sure your kids never do. No parent wants their child to grow up with anything less than wholehearted confidence in themselves. Sadly research shows that children as young as five are saying they need to 'go on a diet' and over half of 11 to 16-year-olds regularly worry about the way they look. Campaigner and mum-of-two-girls Molly Forbes is here to help. In Body Happy Kids, Molly draws on her own experience and a range of experts to provide parents with a much-needed antidote to the confusing health advice that bombards us every day. This reassuring and practical guide covers everything you need to help your child to care for their body with kindness, including how to approach good nutrition (without falling for diet culture), how to see the reality behind beauty ideals and how social media can be used to support body confidence rather than destroy it. With Molly's help, you can arm yourself with the insight and tools to raise resilient children who love the skin they're in.

The Body Is Not an Apology

Author : Sonya Renee Taylor
Publisher : Berrett-Koehler Publishers
ISBN 13 : 1626569770
Total Pages : 159 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (265 download)

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Download or read book The Body Is Not an Apology written by Sonya Renee Taylor and published by Berrett-Koehler Publishers. This book was released on 2018-02-13 with total page 159 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Body Is Not an Apology The Power of Radical Self-Love Against a global backdrop of war, social upheaval, and personal despair, there is a growing sense of urgency to challenge the systems of oppression that dehumanize bodies and strip us of our shared humanity. Rather than feel helpless in the face of oppression, world-renowned activist, performance poet, and author Sonya Renee Taylor teaches us how to turn to the power of radical self-love in her new book, The Body Is Not an Apology. Radical self-love is the guiding framework that transforms the learned self-hatred of our bodies and the prejudices we have about other people's bodies into a vision of compassion, equity, and justice. In a revolutionary departure from the corporate self-help and body-positivity movement, Taylor forges the inextricable bond between radical self-love and social justice. The first step is recognizing that we have all been indoctrinated into a system of body shame that profits off of our self-hatred. When we ask ourselves, "Who benefits from our collective shame?" we can begin to make the distinction between the messages we are receiving about our bodies or other bodies and the truth. This book moves us beyond our all-too-often hidden lives, where we are easily encouraged to forget that we are whole humans having whole human experiences in our bodies alongside others. Radical self-love encourages us to embark on a personal journey of transformation with thoughtful reflection on the origins of our minds and bodies as a source of strength. In doing this, we not only learn to reject negative messages about ourselves but begin to thwart the very power structures that uphold them. Systems of oppression thrive off of our inability to make peace with bodies and difference. Radical self-love not only dismantles shame and self-loathing in us but has the power to dismantle global systems of injustice-because when we make peace with our bodies, only then do we have the capacity to truly make peace with the bodies of others