For What Is A Man

Download For What Is A Man full books in PDF, epub, and Kindle. Read online For What Is A Man ebook anywhere anytime directly on your device. Fast Download speed and no annoying ads. We cannot guarantee that every ebooks is available!

Male Vs. Man

Author : Dondre Whitfield
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9780310357131
Total Pages : 0 pages
Book Rating : 4.3/5 (571 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Male Vs. Man by : Dondre Whitfield

Download or read book Male Vs. Man written by Dondre Whitfield and published by . This book was released on 2020 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Males look to be served. Men look to be of service. Emmy Award-nominated actor best known for his role on Queen Sugar and transformational speaker Dondr Whitfield challenges us to be real men in this provocative look at the power found in serving others. Too many males abuse the power they have. Often those males grow up without healthy role models and so, while they look like men, they act like boys. Only now there are adult consequences to their actions. And many of us are caught in the shifting cultural ideas about manhood, unsure of how to make sound decisions or truly be a man. Every day we find evidence that the role of men at home, at work, and out in the world is deeply misinterpreted. In Male vs. Man, Dondr Whitfield equips us to become men rather than simply "grown males." Men are healthy and productive servant-leaders who bring positive change to their communities. Males are self-serving and stuck in negative cycles that we hear and read about daily. They create chaos instead of cultivating calm. Male vs. Man is an uplifting playbook for men who want to level up. It will help men and women alike understand what real manhood is, based on biblical wisdom as well as hard-earned lessons from someone who has been there. With practical guidance and a strong spiritual foundation, Dondr shows how to cultivate the life-changing spiritual, emotional, and psychological attributes of servant leadership at home, at work, and in our communities.

What Is a Man?

Author : Waller R. Newell
Publisher : Harper Collins
ISBN 13 : 0060987588
Total Pages : 562 pages
Book Rating : 4.0/5 (69 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What Is a Man? by : Waller R. Newell

Download or read book What Is a Man? written by Waller R. Newell and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2001-05-15 with total page 562 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: An anthology of extraordinary scope and depth, What Is a Man? reminds us all of the relevance of the manly tradition and offers a blueprint for men (and women) eager to uphold the honor of our forefathers' legacy. Book jacket.

What it Means to be a Man

Author : Rhett Smith
Publisher : Moody Publishers
ISBN 13 : 0802487084
Total Pages : 103 pages
Book Rating : 4.8/5 (24 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What it Means to be a Man by : Rhett Smith

Download or read book What it Means to be a Man written by Rhett Smith and published by Moody Publishers. This book was released on 2013-04-12 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We hear the story of David and Goliath and wonder, “Do we have what it takes to slay the giant?” Men today are confronted with many different expectations of who they’re supposed to be and what role they should be filling. By looking at history, the clichés of manhood, and what intimacy with God looks like, this short book will help men (and women) rethink what it means to be a man in today’s culture. Counselor and pastor Rhett Smith works through tough questions like: How can men look up to role models without following their flaws? Is it possible to strike a balance between passivity and aggression? How can men speak up, find intimacy, and take care of others without neglecting themselves? When Christ calls us to follow Him, He paves a path that is different than our cultural expectations, a path that leads us to a relationship with Him and to true knowledge of what it means to be a man.

Becoming a Man

Author : P. Carl
Publisher : Simon & Schuster
ISBN 13 : 1982105100
Total Pages : 256 pages
Book Rating : 4.9/5 (821 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Becoming a Man by : P. Carl

Download or read book Becoming a Man written by P. Carl and published by Simon & Schuster. This book was released on 2021-01-26 with total page 256 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A “scrupulously honest” (O, The Oprah Magazine) debut memoir that explores one man’s gender transition amid a pivotal political moment in America. Becoming a Man is a “moving narrative [that] illuminates the joy, courage, necessity, and risk-taking of gender transition” (Kirkus Reviews). For fifty years P. Carl lived as a girl and then as a queer woman, building a career, a life, and a loving marriage, yet still waiting to realize himself in full. As Carl embarks on his gender transition, he takes us inside the complex shifts and questions that arise throughout—the alternating moments of arrival and estrangement. He writes intimately about how transitioning reconfigures both his own inner experience and his closest bonds—his twenty-year relationship with his wife, Lynette; his already tumultuous relationships with his parents; and seemingly solid friendships that are subtly altered, often painfully and wordlessly. Carl “has written a poignant and candid self-appraisal of life as a ‘work-of-progress’” (Booklist) and blends the remarkable story of his own personal journey with incisive cultural commentary, writing beautifully about gender, power, and inequality in America. His transition occurs amid the rise of the Trump administration and the #MeToo movement—a transition point in America’s own story, when transphobia and toxic masculinity are under fire even as they thrive in the highest halls of power. Carl’s quest to become himself and to reckon with his masculinity mirrors, in many ways, the challenge before the country as a whole, to imagine a society where every member can have a vibrant, livable life. Here, through this brave and deeply personal work, Carl brings an unparalleled new voice to this conversation.

Man Enough

Author : Justin Baldoni
Publisher : HarperCollins
ISBN 13 : 0063055619
Total Pages : 368 pages
Book Rating : 4.0/5 (63 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Man Enough by : Justin Baldoni

Download or read book Man Enough written by Justin Baldoni and published by HarperCollins. This book was released on 2021-04-27 with total page 368 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A GRIPPING, FEARLESS EXPLORATION OF MASCULINITY The effects of traditionally defined masculinity have become one of the most prevalent social issues of our time. In this engaging and provocative new book, beloved actor, director, and social activist Justin Baldoni reflects on his own struggles with masculinity. With insight and honesty, he explores a range of difficult, sometimes uncomfortable topics including strength and vulnerability, relationships and marriage, body image, sex and sexuality, racial justice, gender equality, and fatherhood. Writing from experience, Justin invites us to move beyond the scripts we’ve learned since childhood and the roles we are expected to play. He challenges men to be brave enough to be vulnerable, to be strong enough to be sensitive, to be confident enough to listen. Encouraging men to dig deep within themselves, Justin helps us reimagine what it means to be man enough and in the process what it means to be human.

Season of Life

Author : Jeffrey Marx
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
ISBN 13 : 1416584811
Total Pages : 176 pages
Book Rating : 4.4/5 (165 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Season of Life by : Jeffrey Marx

Download or read book Season of Life written by Jeffrey Marx and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2007-11-01 with total page 176 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The bestselling inspirational book in which the author reunites with a childhood football hero, now a minister and coach, and witnesses a revelatory demonstration of the true meaning of manhood—Season of Life is a book that “should be required reading for every high school student in America and every parent as well” (Carl Lewis, Olympic champion). Joe Ehrmann, a former NFL football star and volunteer coach for the Gilman high school football team, teaches his players the keys to successful defense: penetrate, pursue, punish, love. Love? A former captain of the Baltimore Colts and now an ordained minister, Ehrmann is serious about the game of football but even more serious about the purpose of life. Season of Life is his inspirational story as told by Pulitzer Prize–winning journalist Jeffrey Marx, who was a ballboy for the Colts when he first met Ehrmann. Ehrmann now devotes his life to teaching young men a whole new meaning of masculinity. He teaches the boys at Gilman the precepts of his Building Men for Others program: Being a man means emphasizing relationships and having a cause bigger than yourself. It means accepting responsibility and leading courageously. It means that empathy, integrity, and living a life of service to others are more important than points on a scoreboard. Decades after he first met Ehrmann, Jeffrey Marx renewed their friendship and watched his childhood hero putting his principles into action. While chronicling a season with the Gilman Greyhounds, Marx witnessed the most extraordinary sports program he’d ever seen, where players say “I love you” to each other and coaches profess their love for their players. Off the field Marx sat with Ehrmann and absorbed life lessons that led him to reexamine his own unresolved relationship with his father. Season of Life is a book about what it means to be a man of substance and impact. It is a moving story that will resonate with athletes, coaches, parents—anyone struggling to make the right choices in life.

A Man in Full

Author : Tom Wolfe
Publisher : Farrar, Straus and Giroux
ISBN 13 : 1429960698
Total Pages : 756 pages
Book Rating : 4.4/5 (299 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis A Man in Full by : Tom Wolfe

Download or read book A Man in Full written by Tom Wolfe and published by Farrar, Straus and Giroux. This book was released on 2010-04-01 with total page 756 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Bonfire of the Vanities defined an era--and established Tom Wolfe as our prime fictional chronicler of America at its most outrageous and alive. With A Man in Full, the time the setting is Atlanta, Georgia--a racially mixed late-century boomtown full of fresh wealth, avid speculators, and worldly-wise politicians. Big men. Big money. Big games. Big libidos. Big trouble. The protagonist is Charles Croker, once a college football star, now a late-middle-aged Atlanta real-estate entrepreneur turned conglomerate king, whose expansionist ambitions and outsize ego have at last hit up against reality. Charlie has a 28,000-acre quail-shooting plantation, a young and demanding second wife--and a half-empty office tower with a staggering load of debt. When star running back Fareek Fanon--the pride of one of Atlanta's grimmest slums--is accused of raping an Atlanta blueblood's daughter, the city's delicate racial balance is shattered overnight. Networks of illegal Asian immigrants crisscrossing the continent, daily life behind bars, shady real-estate syndicates, cast-off first wives of the corporate elite, the racially charged politics of college sports--Wolfe shows us the disparate worlds of contemporary America with all the verve, wit, and insight that have made him our most phenomenal, most admired contemporary novelist. A Man in Full is a 1998 National Book Award Finalist for Fiction.

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP

Author : Steve Harvey
Publisher : Harper Collins
ISBN 13 : 0061999571
Total Pages : 254 pages
Book Rating : 4.0/5 (619 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP by : Steve Harvey

Download or read book Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP written by Steve Harvey and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2010-06-01 with total page 254 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Steve Harvey, the host of the nationally syndicated Steve Harvey Morning Show, can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years, whether it's through the "Strawberry Letters" segment of his program or while on tour for his comedy shows. Yet when it comes to relationships, they can't figure out what makes men tick. Why? According to Steve it's because they're asking other women for advice when no one but another man can tell them how to find and keep a man. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Steve lets women inside the mindset of a man and sheds light on concepts and questions such as: The Ninety Day Rule: Ford requires it of its employees. Should you require it of your man? The five questions every woman should ask a man to determine how serious he is. And much more . . . Sometimes funny, sometimes direct, but always truthful, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book you must read if you want to understand how men think when it comes to relationships.

Men Explain Things to Me

Author : Rebecca Solnit
Publisher : Haymarket Books
ISBN 13 : 1608464571
Total Pages : 145 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (84 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Men Explain Things to Me by : Rebecca Solnit

Download or read book Men Explain Things to Me written by Rebecca Solnit and published by Haymarket Books. This book was released on 2014-04-14 with total page 145 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The National Book Critics Circle Award–winning author delivers a collection of essays that serve as the perfect “antidote to mansplaining” (The Stranger). In her comic, scathing essay “Men Explain Things to Me,” Rebecca Solnit took on what often goes wrong in conversations between men and women. She wrote about men who wrongly assume they know things and wrongly assume women don’t, about why this arises, and how this aspect of the gender wars works, airing some of her own hilariously awful encounters. She ends on a serious note— because the ultimate problem is the silencing of women who have something to say, including those saying things like, “He’s trying to kill me!” This book features that now-classic essay with six perfect complements, including an examination of the great feminist writer Virginia Woolf’s embrace of mystery, of not knowing, of doubt and ambiguity, a highly original inquiry into marriage equality, and a terrifying survey of the scope of contemporary violence against women. “In this series of personal but unsentimental essays, Solnit gives succinct shorthand to a familiar female experience that before had gone unarticulated, perhaps even unrecognized.” —The New York Times “Essential feminist reading.” —The New Republic “This slim book hums with power and wit.” —Boston Globe “Solnit tackles big themes of gender and power in these accessible essays. Honest and full of wit, this is an integral read that furthers the conversation on feminism and contemporary society.” —San Francisco Chronicle “Essential.” —Marketplace “Feminist, frequently funny, unflinchingly honest and often scathing in its conclusions.” —Salon

Boys

Author : Rachel Giese
Publisher : Seal Press
ISBN 13 : 1580058752
Total Pages : 202 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (8 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Boys by : Rachel Giese

Download or read book Boys written by Rachel Giese and published by Seal Press. This book was released on 2018-12-11 with total page 202 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A vital and sweeping examination of today's "boy crisis," demonstrating the ways in which we raise boys into a culture of toxic masculinity and offering solutions that can liberate us all Whether they're being urged to "man up" or warned that "boys don't cry," young men are subjected to damaging messages about manliness: they must muzzle their emotions and never show weakness, dominate girls and compete with one another. Boys: What It Means to Become a Man examines how these toxic rules can hinder boys' emotional and social development. If girls can expand the borders of femaleness, could boys also be set free of limiting, damaging expectations about manhood and masculinity? Could what's been labelled "the boy crisis" be the beginning of a revolution in how we raise young men? Drawing on extensive research and interviews with educators, activists, parents, psychologists, sociologists, and young men, Giese -- mother to a son herself -- examines the myths of masculinity and the challenges facing boys today. She reports from boys-only sex education classes and recreational sports leagues; talks to parents of transgender children and plays video games with her son. She tells stories of boys navigating the transition into manhood and how the upheaval in cultural norms about sex, sexuality and the myths of masculinity have changed the coming of age process for today's boys. With lively reportage and clear-eyed analysis, Giese reveals that the movement for gender equality has the potential to liberate us all.

What it Means to be a Man

Author : Rafael L. Ramírez
Publisher : Rutgers University Press
ISBN 13 : 9780813526614
Total Pages : 164 pages
Book Rating : 4.5/5 (266 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What it Means to be a Man by : Rafael L. Ramírez

Download or read book What it Means to be a Man written by Rafael L. Ramírez and published by Rutgers University Press. This book was released on 1999 with total page 164 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What It Means to Be a Man begins with a discussion of machismo set in the context of the social construction of masculinity. Ramírez presents his interpretation of what it means to be a Puerto Rican man, discussing the attributes and demands of masculinity, and pointing out the ways in which strength, competition, and sexuality are joined with power and pleasure. He examines the erotic relationships between men as part of the expressions of masculinity, and analyzes how the homosexual experience reproduces the dominant masculine ideology.

What Makes a Man

Author : Rebecca Walker
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9781594480683
Total Pages : 324 pages
Book Rating : 4.4/5 (86 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What Makes a Man by : Rebecca Walker

Download or read book What Makes a Man written by Rebecca Walker and published by . This book was released on 2005 with total page 324 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A timely and profound anthology from the national bestselling author of Black, White and Jewish, Representing a stunning range of essayists and novelists, both men and women, this groundbreaking anthology boldly confronts the complications, possibilities, uncertainties, and joys of being a man in the 21st century.

What a Man's Gotta Do

Author : Antony Easthope
Publisher : Psychology Press
ISBN 13 : 9780415906388
Total Pages : 196 pages
Book Rating : 4.9/5 (63 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What a Man's Gotta Do by : Antony Easthope

Download or read book What a Man's Gotta Do written by Antony Easthope and published by Psychology Press. This book was released on 1992 with total page 196 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Although images of women in the mass media have been widely discussed ln recent years, there is no equivalent analysis of men. Once again masculinity seems to have succeeded in passing itself off as universal and invisible. In this book, Antony Easthope argues that, far from being universal, the main tradition of masculinity in the West is both specific and peculiar. What is masculinity? Drawing up psychoanalysis and an understanding of ideology, Easthope shows how the masculine myth forces men to try to be masculine and only masculine, denying their feminine side. In an original contribution to the understanding of gender he analyzes masculinity as it is represented in a wide range of mass media--films, television, newspapers, pop music, and pulp novels. Why are two men in a John Wayne western more concerned with each other than with the women in their lives? Is aggressive male banter a sign that men hate or love each other? Why does a jealous man always have to see his rival? Written in lively, witty, and accessible style, this book is certain to become controversial but essential reading for a wide range of courses in popular culture, mass media, and cultural studies, as well as those in film study, literature, and sociology.--From back cover.

The Man's Guide to Women

Author : John Gottman
Publisher : Rodale Books
ISBN 13 : 1623361850
Total Pages : 224 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (233 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis The Man's Guide to Women by : John Gottman

Download or read book The Man's Guide to Women written by John Gottman and published by Rodale Books. This book was released on 2016-02-02 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Results from world-renowned relationship expert John Gottman’s famous Love Lab have proven an incredible truth: Men make or break relationships. Based on 40 years of research, The Man’s Guide to Women unlocks the mystery of how to attract, satisfy, and succeed with a woman for a lifetime. For the first time ever, there is a science-based answer to the age-old question: What do women really want in a man? Dr. Gottman, author of the New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and his wife and collaborator, clinical psychologist Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, have pored over the research along with bestselling coauthors Douglas Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD. Together, they have written this definitive guide for men, providing answers on everything from how to approach a woman and build a connection with her to how to truly satisfy her in bed and know when the relationship is on the right track. The Man’s Guide to Women is a must-have playbook for how to play—and win—the game of love.

What Women Want in a Man

Author : Bruce Bryans
Publisher : Createspace Independent Pub
ISBN 13 : 9781482699777
Total Pages : 114 pages
Book Rating : 4.6/5 (997 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis What Women Want in a Man by : Bruce Bryans

Download or read book What Women Want in a Man written by Bruce Bryans and published by Createspace Independent Pub. This book was released on 2013-03-13 with total page 114 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to Become the Man That Women Want to Love and Obey...in Every Way In order to attract and more importantly, KEEP a good woman in your life, you must become the kind of man that she simply can't live without. This is your only job as a man when it comes to dating and relating with women. You don't need a bunch of seduction techniques, mind games, or pick-up tactics to make a woman want you. Because quite frankly, no seduction technique in the world will turn a woman on and make her want you if she does not RESPECT you as a man. If a woman cannot respect you as a man, she won't be able to trust you. If she isn't able to place her trust in you, she simply cannot fall in love or STAY in love with you. Discover the Secrets of What Women Want in a Man Most guys simply don't know what women want in a man. Because of this, they try all kinds of "seduction tactics" to attract women, and only end up with low-quality women and terrible relationships. If you ask the average guy what women want, he may say things like confidence, money, or ridiculous good looks, but all of these things are just the tip of the iceberg. Here's what women really want from men... Security. How to Get the Respect, Desire, and Unwavering Loyalty of a Woman If you can communicate to a woman that you're a man that can offer her security in the world, she will give you her heart and more. And get this, you don't need to be ridiculously good-looking or have a big bank account to make a woman feel secure with you. There's a much better (and easier) way, and that's what you'll discover inside What Women Want In A Man. In What Women Want In A Man you're going to learn: How to understand women and the one thing that you can improve about yourself to make a woman want you more. The reason why a really great woman is HARD-WIRED by NATURE to CHASE the kind of man that possesses several qualities that are rare in most men. (Hint: This is the key to understanding how women think) Ten ways in which you can IMMEDIATELY begin working on yourself to become an overpowering magnet for the woman of your dreams. How to be decisive and become a master at dealing with conflict while staying perfectly calm and poised. The unforgivable sin that can ruin your chances of getting (and keeping) a girlfriend. This is the thing that FORCES her to either want to DUMP YOU or CHEAT ON YOU without her understanding why. How to take control of your emotions in any situation and be the rock that she needs you to be. How to make a woman happy by being THE MAN in your relationship; you know – the one that “wears the pants.” The reasons why the woman you want may put you in the friend zone, and how to avoid falling into this horrifying category. Why men who suffer from the nice guy syndrome have the most difficulties attracting and keeping a phenomenal woman to build an amazing relationship with. How to become an alpha male and become more assertive with women. This is the key to transforming yourself into the kind of man that she can confidently rely on and most importantly, RESPECT. How to silence your "inner weakling" and become so secure with yourself as a man that she won't be able to entertain the thought of being with some other guy. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More? Get started right away and learn how to become the confident man that can naturally attract a high-quality woman and keep her "well-behaved." Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.

The Revolution of Man

Author : Philip Barker
Publisher : Allen & Unwin
ISBN 13 : 1760870552
Total Pages : 272 pages
Book Rating : 4.7/5 (68 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis The Revolution of Man by : Philip Barker

Download or read book The Revolution of Man written by Philip Barker and published by Allen & Unwin. This book was released on 2019-02-04 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: 'Compelling. What does it mean to be a man? Finally, we're talking about it. This book is the conversation we need to have-with each other, our sons and fathers.' Peter FitzSimons, bestselling author of Kokoda 'A terrific read-gutsy, plain-speaking and personal, addressing almost every aspect of Australian men's lives today . . . This book will greatly help the growing avalanche of masculine change.' Steve Biddulph, psychologist and bestselling author of Manhood The performance of being a man, from the moment we open our eyes, until we gasp our last breath, is damaging us, and those around us. Phil Barker has written thousands of words about being a man in these strange and terrible times. As a journalist, he has spent years investigating the modern epidemics of suicide, domestic violence, pornography and misogyny, but also the essential bonds of male friendship, fatherhood and men's relationships with women. During this time, Phil found himself seeing what it is to 'be a man' in a completely new light. Men are forced into a performance of masculinity that is suffocating, limiting and damaging. The Revolution of Man shows us how to rethink what it means to be a man and urges men to reconnect with their emotions so they, and the people they love, can start leading happier, healthier and more meaningful lives. 'Phil Barker skewers toxic masculinity and provides a manifesto for modern manhood. This well-researched, engaging and thought-provoking book explains why positive masculinity is good for men, women and children. We need more male allies like Phil to create a safer future for the post #MeToo generation.' Tracey Spicer, journalist and bestselling author of The Good Girl Stripped Bare

Self-made Man

Author : Norah Vincent
Publisher : Viking Adult
ISBN 13 : 9780670034666
Total Pages : 290 pages
Book Rating : 4.0/5 (346 download)

DOWNLOAD NOW!

Book Synopsis Self-made Man by : Norah Vincent

Download or read book Self-made Man written by Norah Vincent and published by Viking Adult. This book was released on 2006-01 with total page 290 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A Los Angeles Times columnist recounts her eighteen-month undercover stint as a man, a time during which she underwent considerable personal risks as she worked a sales job, joined a bowling league, frequented sex clubs, dated, and encountered firsthand the rigid codes and rituals of masculinity. 80,000 first printing.