Author : Charity Dasenbrock
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9781660345977
Total Pages : 250 pages
Book Rating : 4.3/5 (459 download)
Book Synopsis It's Hard to Hug a Fat Person by : Charity Dasenbrock
Download or read book It's Hard to Hug a Fat Person written by Charity Dasenbrock and published by . This book was released on 2020-01-13 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Charity Dasenbrock is fat. She has always been fat, and she has always been told that she's fat. Throughout her childhood, Charity's mother put her on the latest fad diets, forcing her to eat hardboiled eggs and grapefruit. "Don't you want to be pretty?" her mother asked, as she dished out seconds to her brothers and denied Charity dessert. As a college student, Charity injured her ankle running for a bus. "Perhaps you wouldn't have fallen if you weren't so fat," the ER doctor said. A man with whom she hoped to get involved once blurted out, "I'm never going to fall in love with you, and neither will anyone else. You are too fat."It's Hard to Hug a Fat Person weaves Charity's experiences as an obese woman in America with her food battles, her memories of sexual abuse, and her many transcendent moments along the healing journey in an effort to shine a light into the dark places many of us experience in our lives. This story follows Charity for one year of dancing in red leggings, coping with tight airplane seats, and enjoying delicious meals with friends. Her spiritual beliefs, her Ayurvedic practices, her best friend Hannah, her cat Tina, and most of all, her indomitable open heart help her to maneuver through life with humor, kindness, and wisdom--even while her culture and her own thoughts tell her that her body is a problem that needs to be fixed. After spending the year with this radiant woman, you will gain new perspectives into self-care, self-acceptance, and the importance of gratitude--as well how to love yourself into happiness.If ever I met a brave human being, it was Charity Dasenbrock. Whether she was confronting difficult childhood memories, or healing from the many injustices she suffered because of her weight, or even honestly examining her own appetites and the traumas that drove them, Charity was a survivor. She endured doctors moralizing (instead of helping her with her health), and nasty comments by strangers in the checkout line, not to mention the kinds of oppression that women in our society have to cope with on a daily basis. But instead of shutting down, or even keeping quiet about these things, Charity chose to write.Charity's book is about love. I remember in one of our consultations I suggested she not use the word "love" quite so often. She protested loudly, "But the whole book is about love!" While my point was that she use the word less frequently to increase its impact, readers of this book will immediately feel the many people and things she loved.Charity's memoir was finished in December of 2019 just before she passed away. She was tremendously proud of it. I was blessed to know Charity and to be able to help her--along with the other kind people in her writing groups--to go deeper into her material. In my writing courses, I see people use writing to challenge their own assumptions, to hone their opinions, or to learn to tell a story with more flair and panache. But Charity did something beyond that. She used writing to teach herself to be more a more wise human being. And she did it with a smile and a beautiful laugh. Andy Couturier, author of Writing Open the Mind and The Abundance of Less
